He Married You, But Choose Her….
I’ve been hearing a lot these days about married men who cheat. It’s not news to me, but there are people who apparently have been under a rock and never heard of such a thing. For those of you who don’t know, the story usually goes like this: The wife gets all on social media claiming how the woman he cheated with is a hoe, slut bucket, and numerous other things. The audience then cheer’s for the wife, because how the hell did she get cheated on? According to social media, you have a perfectly happy family and which you have declared that your husband is King all for us to see and he cheated? Say it ain’t so.
Then boom! You find out not only has he been cheating, but he has financed this miscellaneous chick with a condo, car, and access to the same funds you get. How dare her to take part of your earnings! Ok, maybe you spread your legs a little further than she did in order to attain your status as a wife. But she is still getting the best of your husband, with little thought to a family life, bills, or any kind of responsibility that your hubby seems to have forgotten as well. It’s the everlasting party filled with great sex, drinks, and an incredible payment of time and attention that he no longer gives you. Hey,
So who’s fought is it really when your husband decides to step out? When a man steps out, it either has something to do with the home or nothing. Maybe he is just an asshole and liked the fact that someone else liked him. Married men are the easiest of prey, especially if he is not happy or even if he is if he wants something else to dip into, he can; especially if he has the dough and the ego to match. Those women who are married to men who are sub par that nobody wants but you, no need to worry, you are in no real danger. It’s the husbands with money and power that attracts the most clever of concubines.
These young girls and old brods are making it very easy. They are apparently hard to say no to. A woman is usually not the one that does all the chasing. More than likely if your husband is cheating he pursued her, just like he probably did you. He tells her the same lies that he tells you. He feels her head with all the things that make you look like the enemy and makes her seem like the hero coming to save him from you. He makes her feel comfortable with laying with your King and he pays for her silence. So is she really the blame?
We all want to feel something with our connections, it’s part of the human experience, but at what cost? I am in no way condoning cheating on anyone’s part, but we must be clear about the source of the demise. Nothing is the same as it was ten years ago, and in another ten years, it will be something else. What I do know is that it is more human to be attracted to several different humans as opposed to just one. So if you do decide to choose that one, just know that one day you may be faced with knowing that you were not the only one.
Love is… Love 💋
L.L Walton
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